Safe-guarding Techniques
[Abnormal Development]
- Neurotic people
- Root cause : under developed social interest
- Manifestations
- Set their goals too high
- Live in their own private world
- Have a rigid and dogmatic style of life
- External factors in maladjustment
- Exaggerated physical deficiencies
- Exaggerated physical deficiencies : also exaggerates feeling of inferiority
- Pampered style of life
- Tendency to perpetuate the parasitic relationship
- Feels incapable of anything; therefore, inferior
- Neglected style of life
- Distrustful of other people and of society
- All involve low self-esteem and all contribute to lower level of social interest
[Safeguarding Techniques]
- Conscious techniques that prevent neurotic people's inflated self-images to be disgraced in public.
- Excuses
- Aggression
- Withdrawal
- Excuses
- "Yes, but" & "If only" statements
- Aggression
- Depreciation
- Undervaluing someone's effort
- Accusation
- Blaming others for one's failures
- Self-accusation
- Hunting one's self to hurt others
- Withdrawal
- Moving backward
- Similar to regression of Defense Mechanism
- Standing still
- Not doing anything
- Hesitating
- Procrastinating until it's too late
- Constructing obstacles
- Create your own problem
- Surpassing the obstacle will rise self esteem
- Not surpassing the obstacle will serve as an Excuses
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